This is a new trend and it’s no longer just for the likes of Demi Moore or Madonna, a lot of women are proud to say that they are older women looking for sex. A study of online dating service recently revealed that 280,000 women over 45 are keen to date a younger man. Specialist dating websites have sprung up to satisfy the new demand – but even the young men who post on them can’t agree whether cougars (older women) are to be commended or detested. So what are the best tricks for older women looking for sex you might ask? The truth is, there is no set format, but there a few simple steps you can follow to achieve your target.
First and foremost, the best way to attract younger men is through visual presentation – Remember not too much make-up and always more is less. Secondly you need to slow down the ageing process and look better than your actual age. The best advice here is to avoid too much smoking or drinking, try to sleep 8-9 hours a night, eat healthy and keep myself fit. There is nothing sexier than a fit older woman.
If you’re trying to attract these younger men online – Take a couple of sexy pictures highlighting your best assets (remember younger men are visual-minded) and upload them on the website you have joined. Fill out your online profile and talk about yourself with a hint of panache. Don’t be scared to describe what you want/looking for in your profile – This will fend off the time waster.
If you’re out on the town what to wear is important – Sexy, confident and bold! Did I say sexy & bold? – Yes, I did. Let us get one thing straight – No matter how old you are, when you’re dressed to the nines, the world is your oyster. The confidence outfit will enhance your sexy appeal and the bold attitude will set you apart. If you’re a full figured woman, try wearing some dark colors and something not too tight. If you’re of a skinny frame, something tight and bright will do you wonders. Lastly don’t forget to buy yourself some nice pair of high heels.
Now that we have most of the areas covered – The next question is where to meet these elusive younger men? Yes they can be elusive sometimes – But then again, that’s why I am giving you these pointers. The best places to meet younger men are through social gathering, social pubs, restaurant and the occasional cafés. Please avoid night clubs because you will be competing with a lot of other women and most of them younger than you. Never sit alone and always try to interact with the people in the area that you have gone too. For example if it’s a social pub – Head straight to the bar area, order a drink and start a chit-chat with the bartender.
Lastly if you’re not fond of outings, why not try finding what you want online. There are a ton of great sites out there for older women looking for sex.
The pointers here aren’t meant to be exhaustive, but just enough to direct you in the right direction when it comes to successfully meeting younger men. Remember some younger men actually like older woman because older women are successful, own a home and pay their own bills.